Here is a little bit of the story... Ok, so it is a lot of the story. Don't feel obligated to read it all. I just want to be able to remember.
July 19th: Shawn and I went to the doctor to check and see if I was making any progress or if there were any signs of labor. Shawn was relieved when the doctor said there was no progress yet. He still had finals to study for and take. My hormones got the best of me :) Shawn had to make our follow up appt because our appt was for the 25th- two days after my due date- and I couldn't stop crying. It is completely irrational, but I felt like our baby was never going to come.
July 25th: I headed off for our appt alone. (Sidenote: Shawn got a job and started work the week after he got out of school. Talk about blessings! We were so worried he wouldn't be able to find one for awhile.) The doctor listened to the baby and was concerned there wasn't as much movement. I had to have an ultrasound to check the baby. She wasn't moving much at all- her little ring finger only moved once in the 30 minutes we watched her. So I was scheduled for an induction to help baby get coming the next night. (They wanted to do it that night, but the hospital was full so we couldn't get a room.) More tears and worry.
July 26th: I woke up at 5:30 to call and confirm our induction time only to be told, "we are sorry the hospital is still full and we won't be able to get you in tonight, but we are worried about your baby's movement so we need you to come in and take a stress test and monitor the baby." I broke down yet again. I called Shawn and made him leave work early to go to the clinic with me. We went to the clinic and they monitored baby. Her movements were up and she seemed fine to wait one more day. So we scheduled our induction for the next night and went home.
July 27th: This time they called me and said they were still full and we would have to wait till the following morning to come in. That was it. I was done. I called the doctor and he was a little concerned and said he would keep in touch. He just said to make sure and do the fetal kick counts and keep him posted if they slowed down again. I had a lot of encouragement to keep busy and do something fun so I decided to listen :) Shawn had work off so we played aka worked on his fishtank and hit up the bulk candy at Winco. Later that night, we got a call from the doctor saying he had just delivered a baby and emptied out a room for us. I was ecstatic! We quickly ran out the door and headed to the hospital. The whole way there, I was in shock and was convinced we were going to get there and they were going to say someone in active labor had come in while we were driving there so we were bumped again.
The Real Story of July 27th and 28th:
10:00 PM. We checked into the hospital. Shawn made his little bed while I got all hooked up to machines and got an IV.
11:30 PM. I took cytotec to get the process going and an ambien.
2:00 AM. I vaguely remember huge nurse named Nancy coming into the room and giving me another pill and scaring me! She told me she had to go under my sheets to adjust the monitor. I remember thinking, "Hmm... why is she going under my sheets? And who is she? She isn't my nurse" Shawn said I said weird things all night and was pretty out of it. I don't even remember most of the night.
6:00 AM. I woke up sick... my stomach was killing me. I took off the monitors and went to the bathroom. I remember trying to curl up into a ball in the bathroom. After awhile the nurse realized my monitors weren't working and came in to check on me. She told me I was in labor and that my pain was contractions. My memories of the whole thing are a little vague because I couldn't really wake up from having taken the ambien.
7:06 AM. The nurse came in to check me. I got super embarrassed because I thought I peed the bed. To our surprise my water had broken naturally and I was dilated to a 7.
7:08 AM. The contractions were two minutes apart and the baby was showing signs of stress. They gave me an oxygen mask to see if that would help. Then I was given medicine to lower my blood pressure to see if it would help baby calm down. At this point, the nurse suggested an epidural to calm me down and hopefully in turn calm the baby down. An amazing man named Layne came and gave me an epidural. He was giving it to me in the middle of a contraction and I didn't feel the end of it. I was going to try and go natural, but am glad that nurse Jessica convinced me to do an epidural.
10:00 Dr Evans showed up. We did a few sets of pushing. He thought it was so funny because at one point when I was pushing and he could see the baby's head she was shaking her head no. Shawn got to see her shake her little head. Dr Evans was worried that the baby was so stressed so he decided to use suction to extract the baby. Baby Iva is a vacuum extraction- I thought it was funny when they typed that into the computer. He got her in one pull and no slips.
10:37 Baby Jacqueline Iva is born! Shawn cut the umbilical cord. He was very hands on in the whole delivery- I was really surprised at how involved he was. It was pretty neat. The one thing I didn't like was when the doctor let him push on my stomach to feel my back bone because of the cavity that is left. Shawn thought it was pretty cool- I guess that explains why he wants to be a doctor.
Now I am home with baby Iva and couldn't be happier. It was a whole lot of emotions, but she is completely worth it. At one point after she was born, everyone had left the room and I was alone holding my little baby. I just stared at her and cried. She is perfect and I can't believe I am trusted enough to be able to raise this sweet little baby. I pray that I am an adequate mother and can do everything I can to help prepare this sweet little spirit for this crazy world! Last night Shawn said that Iva is already tugging on his heart strings. It was pretty special to see Shawn hold our baby for the first time and tear up. I am sure there will be lots of tears to come- good and bad. And call me crazy, but I can hardly wait!
Sidenote: I have to say how much it helped having family supporting me- especially Shawn. He didn't ask questions when I would randomly start crying throughout this last week. When I wanted to buy a romper for the baby, he helped me find a cute one online. He made sure I was completely taken care of and FED- I think I had about 5 last meals before we finally made it to the doctor. (The random texts from family helped a lot too- even though I cried every time I got one. When did I become so emotional?)
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